<p>The relationship between siblings is often lifelong, perhaps spanning 80 years or more. For those young people who have a brother or sister with special needs this relationship can become more of a burden than a joy. It is therefore extremely important that these young people are made to feel valued during their childhood, so that they can make the journey into adulthood alongside their sibling with special needs, feeling confident and proud. Many siblings can find themselves as the key advocate for their brother or sister when their parents are no longer able to do so (Zatopa 1994). This may not be a role that they would choose for themselves, and certainly is one for which many are unprepared.</p>